The specific ism that I experience in my daily
life is that my family is of mixed culture meaning my husband is black and I am
white and our children are three children are biracial. Although, this normally does not come into
play in the classroom, I recently added some of my family pictures and got some
interesting silent reactions from a few of my parents. However, those silent moments did not last
for long as some of my children pointed out that my husband was black
loudly. For the most part I do not
experience direct isms from the children.
Instead, they see me as Ms. Michele there teacher and that I love and
take care of them. However, I have had
one parent make some off the wall remarks which her child has express in conversation
about my family stating that her house is bigger and that my kids cannot afford
the same big swing set she has because her mom knows where I live and it’s in a
poor neighborhood. When the child
expresses moments of those indiscretions and stereotypes I take a deep breath
and then discuss different houses people live in and look at books with all the
children and discuss how different families can live in the same or different houses
as others. I discuss classism on the
children’s level at President Obama and African American living in the big
White House. The consequences I use in
stereotypes and prejudices for my families and parents is by turning their
misinformation into correct information and making it a teachable moment to
take home. Derman-Sparks & Edwards (2010),
states that being silent is a prejudice when you don’t discuss isms or bias in
the classroom. The best empowerment you
can give a child is to teach their parent that their bias is an ism. I can say as a teacher I have learned more
from my children than I was ever taught in the classroom about life and
perspective. So instead of trying talk
that child out of her belief. I gave her
some new information along with books and pictures and waited her out her
perception of classism and biracial families.
Proud to say she still loves and draws pictures of my house next to hers
which we hang in the classroom.
Derman-Sparks, L. & Edwards,
J. (2012). Anti-bias education for young
children and ourselves. Washington, DC: NAEYC.