Communication

I never noticed until taking this class but I do communicate with others differently.  When I am around my friends and really close coworkers I am loud and animated with no care in the world.  I am biased in my opinion and almost a manipulator of some sorts as I always try to get them to see my point of view.  It is something I am working on though as I try to implement the Platinum Rule with always being open and receptive to other's point of views. Although, I can be overbearing at times in my personal life in my profession as a teacher I am always a professional.  I speak with cultural myopia in mind always considering the needs of the child and their family.   I use proper grammar and never slang and always try my best to be aware of my intercultural communication in regards to how other cultures may interpret my words or actions.  However, I am not always successful as I often still battle with contradicting body language  displaying behaviors opposite of my verbal message.  In essence, I am a work in progress and will continue to strive to be mindful of others and considerate of their thoughts and feelings. 

NonVerbal Television

The show I decided to watch was Probation Diaries, now I had never watched this show before but understanding the relationship was very clear with no sound because the parolee had pictures of their felonies on the screen.  As for the relationships well let’s just say the probation officers relationships vary some were smiling, some were pointing and shaking their head no, and some were using facial expression that showed discontent as the parolees either smiled back, shook their heads no, or begin crying or becoming upset.  The relationships were very tense based on their body language and environment.  I believe the expression and feelings were not mutual in most aspects and that it seemed like a parent chastising a child as they looked as if they are being reprimanded for their actions or verbal expressions.

The assumptions that I made about the plot and characters were that more chose to live by their own rules than follow the rules of the probation officer.  It seemed as if the probation officer was an adult sitter and that the nonverbal and verbal communication that they expressed was one of seriousness with praising when they did do what was expected.  I believe my assumptions would have been more accurate if I watched the show regularly and really knew the demeanor of the officers and the paroles if they were on weekly. 

In essence, watching a show I knew well would have made a huge difference as I knew the character’s personality and the storyline of the show. 

Communication

I will be quite honest I love Hillary Clinton and the way she speaks, she is precise and always to the point and never displays herself as a tap dancer in any line of questioning being asked of her.  She displays confidence and exhibits knowledge that is well-rounded and always on topic of current events.  Hillary Clinton reminds me of a bull dog a prominent figure who only attacks when necessary but always a lady and never a b%^&*.  She is authoritative and knows what she wants but speaks in a demeanor that is politically correct and acceptable to all walks of life.

Hillary Clinton is an excellent role model for all women she exemplifies courage and compassion while always standing up for what she believes is right for the people of America.  I believe what I would want to take away from her communication skills is her passion to reach people and confidence that exudes when she speaks.  People respond to those who communicate well and Hilary Clinton is the gateway to women’s political voices in America.