Saturday, March 23, 2013

Sexual and Gender Identity


There are many ways that the world permeates homophobia and heterosexism and it begins with a world in which children cannot get enough of and parents encourage and that is Disney.  My room swarms with conversations of Princesses and Cars, and now the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers.  As a matter of fact this past week a child asked if she could play Ninja Turtles with the boys and they said yes you can be April which is the only girl character in the show, when I asked if she could be Leonardo or another turtle all the boys yelled no because they were boys (characters).  We live in a world still today that emphasizes roles of gender, heterosexism, and homophobia.  Disney family movies consist of nuclear families such as Honey I Shrunk the Kids or even more recent movies Brave.  The fact that the family park is based on a theme of the 20’s is evident still today as they do not speak about homophobia in the forefront but the message is clear in their programs, movies, characters, and toys.  It is our job as teachers to be aware of cultural norms however, it is our duty to instill practices that there is not gender biased or depict personal biases.  The game Stereotype is an excellent and informational way to teach children of the myths and facts surrounding homophobia and heterosexism (Laureate Education, Inc, 2011b). 

 

I found the question of avoiding materials depicting gays or lesbians to be very thought provoking in my recent career.  I work as a preschool teacher on a federal installation surrounded by Marines and Sailors and a swarm of homophobia.  Although, the president deemed that homosexuals could freely be open in the military the stigma of cultural preferences is still prevalent.  It is an unspoken language in which I have been told by some of my parents that it is fine to be homosexual, but I do not want my children being influenced by it.  In other words, they have some personal bias issues.  However, I do not and walk a very thin line on the issue when I discuss families in the classroom.  I believe just like the video Start Seeing Diversity that although families may be against the discussion children still need to be aware and respectful of other families that are different from their cultural norms (Laureate Education, Inc, 2011b).  I have had some backlash for discussing same=sex families by some parents, but I also tell those parents that what is different is not wrong and you would not want someone to stereotype their family.  Families are people who love each other and their not define by blood or any other stereotype based on cultural norms but the feelings of the heart. 

Laureate Education, Inc. (Executive Producer). (2011b). EDUC 6357-6 Diversity, Development, and Learning [Webcast]. Start Seeing Diversity: Gender. Baltimore, MD: Author. Retrieved from https://class.waldenu.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=%2Fwebapps%2Fblackboard%2Fexecute%2Flauncher%3Ftype%3DCourse%26id%3D_2651072_1%26url%3D